Society
Society is a beast.
Into where do we invest our creative energy?
Society.
From where do we gain inspiration to form our own standards?
Society.
You could debate me on this if you’d like, but I’m convinced it’s from the people around us. We call ourselves individuals… but honestly, guys, at base value, we’re just a mish-mash of the things and people we’re exposed to every day. And what is the source of these exposures?
Society.
Now listennn. This is only natural, so don’t go all hipster-mob on me and get offended that I’m questioning your uniqueness. Everyone works this way. Ever since we were babies, if not simply processing, we’ve been imitating everything we witness. Experimenting, sampling, experiencing; this is life.
However! However. There is one enormous thing that makes you the only you in the universe: the extent and manner in which you interact with this world. Some people come to adopt and emulate the patterns of their society faster than others. Some question and test the validity behind these trends more than their peers.
As citizens, we’re exposed to social trends every day. They are sold to us nearly everywhere we go. Pressure to buy and adapt to them is the scariest thing I’ve yet discovered about living in modern-day America. I feel most comfortable when I am allowed time to weigh and form definitive opinions before I allow certain influences into my life. But with all the trends bouncing around and within my little corner of the world, it’s hard to do this effectively. Freaks.me.out.
Okay, okay. Let me stop and clarify. I realize I’m equating society with media and popular (or “pop”) culture, but in all honesty, I believe they’re entirely the same thing. They’re far too interrelated to be individual bodies. Definition time!
Society: n. a part of a community that is a unit distinguishable by particular aims or standards of living or conduct.
Media: n. the means of communication, as radio and television, newspapers, and magazines that reach or influence people widely.
Popular culture: n. contemporary lifestyle and items that are well known and generally accepted; cultural patterns that are widespread within a population.
So you see, as defined, a society cannot exist unless it is characterized by a unique, distinguishable form of popular culture which becomes “popular” through being introduced, spread, and communicated to the public by the media. For better or worse, these elements work together to build and uphold a society according to common interest. And “common” interest is just another word for the interest of the majority.
We all have a desire for fulfillment. I don’t mean to say that all aspects of mainstream society are negative, it’s just that… well… there are so many. Everywhere. And it’s hard to narrow down which ones are okay to accept and which ones aren’t, since many trends show striking similarities that aren’t quite so nice.

Here’s where we find the problem. The “Just live for the moment! You’re only young for so long! You deserve to have everything you want and more!” mantra has been chorused from almost every electronic screen and modern publication ever created. It’s from this mother-of-a-headache mentality that all the trends we see today are born. We’re conditioned to expect it. Regardless of how superficial the fix, we tend to chase it. In this way, media has spread and invaded everything, growing into an industry titan. Magazines, movies, music… you can’t escape the screaming propaganda.
You and I?
We’re directly in the line of fire, kid.
And this is where my concern lies. See, I feel like we’ve all become so enamored with input, we’ve lost touch with our own consequential output. It’s terrifying to consider. We don’t think to predict our behavior or conjecture how these facets of society will move us when we adopt them. I don’t think we even consciously consider the reasons behind why we accept them. They’re just too overwhelming. We don’t have the energy to analyze each bombardment of new ideas as they come. So they become the new normal. And we get what we have here today.
The fact that I have to fight off all these dangerous voices on a day-to-day basis disgusts me; the twisted, intricate dance of modern comparative securities makes me dizzy. My brain wasn’t made for these gymnastics. I’m a fan of absolutes. Show me the genuine identities. Find me the honesty. Where do I find the Nutrition Facts on this mass of propaganda and influence? If I consume this product of society, what should I expect?
I’m very impressionable. I like liking things. It’s a bittersweet complex. But as a result, the only security I can cling to is founded in all the stubbornly objective perspectives I can muster. I try my best to keep knowledge of the blatant hypocrisy and superficiality of pop culture’s expectations at the forefront of my mental filter. Mostly because… well, I’m scared of conforming without noticing. When I look at my society, I see emptiness. I don’t want to get pulled into that trap by my own human nature. I think you might feel the same way.
So what are we going to do? We’re kinda low on the society food chain. We can’t change anything very big. Not yet. But we can start by changing ourselves.
Be self-aware. Objectively look at who you truly are every once in a while. Look at particular dominate qualities of yourself and question why you act that way. The instant you find a part of you that exists for reasons of pride or self-gain, tackle that thing with every ounce of will-power you’ve got and find its source.
Don’t try to conform to every empty fad of society. They have nothing for us. We don’t need the vices of society to give us fulfillment. We’ve got our stubborn convictions. And we ain’t budgin’.


